Virginia Woolf Zitate

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„Und du wünschst dir, ein Dichter zu sein; und du wünschst dir, ein Liebhaber zu sein.“

„Manche Menschen gehen zu Priestern, andere in Poesie, ich zu meinen Freunden. --Bernard, Die Wellen“

„Wir haben die seltsame Kraft, Tatsachen durch die Kraft der Einbildung zu verändern.“

„Ich habe ein tief verborgenes, unausgesprochenes Verlangen nach etwas jenseits des täglichen Lebens.“

„Ich wollte über den Tod schreiben, nur das Leben brach wie immer ein.“

„Warum sind Frauen für Männer soviel interessanter als Männer für Frauen?“

„In Wahrheit habe ich als Frau kein Land. Als Frau will ich kein Land haben. Als Frau ist mein Land die ganze Welt.“

„Solange sie an einen Mann denkt, hat niemand etwas gegen das Denken einer Frau einzuwenden.“

„Viele erfolgreiche Männer haben keine erfolgreichen Qualifikationen außer der, keine Frau zu sein.“

„Frauen haben all diese Jahrhunderte als Spiegel gedient, die die magische und köstliche Kraft besitzen, die Figur des Mannes in doppelter natürlicher Größe widerzuspiegeln.“

„Wenn du nicht da bist, verschwindet die Farbe aus dem Leben, wie Wasser aus einem Schwamm; und ich existiere nur noch, trocken und staubig.
Ich habe Freunde verloren, manche durch (natürlichen) Tod… andere durch reine Unfähigkeit, die Straße zu überqueren.“

„Ethels neuer Hund ist tot. Die Wahrheit ist, kein Hund kann die Anstrengung aushalten, mit Ethel zu leben.“

„Wer uns unserer Träume beraubt, beraubt uns unseres Lebens.“

„Wir wollen es nicht als selbsverständlich hinnehmen, dass das Leben sich voller in dem entfaltet, was man gewöhnlich für groß hält, als in dem, was man gewöhnlich für klein hält.“

„Alles, was ich Ihnen sagen kann, ist, dass ich entdecke, als ich zu schreiben begann, dass eine Frau - es klingt so einfach, aber ich sollte mich schämen, Ihnen zu sagen, wie lange ich brauchte, das selbst zu entdecken- nicht ein Mann ist. Ihre Erfahrung ist nicht die gleiche. Ihre Traditionen sind anders. Ihre Werte, sowohl in der Kunst wie im Leben, sind ihre eigenen.“

„Aufwachsen bedeutet, einige Illusionen zu verlieren, um sich andere anzueignen.“

„Schreiben ist wie Sex. Zuerst machst du es aus Liebe, dann machst du es für deine Freunde und dann machst du es für Geld.“

„Bücher sind Spiegel der Seele.“

„Es macht nichts, wenn es Fehlschüsse gibt und Ausrutscher. Wenn ich mit solch einem Tempo schreibe, muss ich meinen Gegenstand so schnell und direkt wie möglich treffen und muss also Worte packen, wählen und abschiessen, ohne mehr Zeit zu verlieren, als ich brauche, um meine Feder in die Tinte zu tauchen.“

„Männer nehmen die Welt nicht wahr, weil sie selber glauben, sie seien die Welt.“

„Manchmal denke ich, der Himmel besteht aus ununterbrochenem, niemals ermüdendem Lesen.“

„Keine Leidenschaft ist stärker in der menschlichen Brust als das Verlangen, andere glauben zu machen, was man selbst glaubt.“

„Frauen waren jahrhundertelang ein Vergrößerungsspiegel, der es den Männern ermöglichte, sich selbst in doppelter Lebensgröße zu sehen.“

„Wenn du nicht die Wahrheit über dich selbst sagst, kannst du ihr nichts über andere Leute erzählen.“

„Das Verlangen zu lesen ist wie alle anderen Sehnsüchte, die unsere unglücklich Seele aufwühlen, der Analyse fähig.“

„Letzte Nacht las ich im Buch Hiob. Ich habe nicht den Eindruck, daß Gott da gut wegkommt.“

„Orlando liebte natürlich einsame Orte, weite Aussichten und genoss es sich für immer und ewig einsam zu fühlen.“

„Alle Extreme des Gefühls sind mit dem Wahnsinn im Bunde.“

„Der einzige Rat, den man jemand fürs Lesen geben kann, ist tatsächlich der, keinen Rat anzunehmen, dem eigenen Instinkt zu folgen, den eigenen Verstand zu gebrauchen und zu eigenen Schlussfolgerungen zu kommen.“

„Mrs. Dalloway gibt immer Parties, um die Stille zu überdecken“

„Man kann vielleicht nur ganz an das glauben, was man nicht sehen kann.“

„Ihr Lachen war hinreißend, ein unerhörtes Lachen, fast wie das eines Kindes. Jauchzendes Lachen, wenn etwas sie amüsierte.“

„Es scheint mir ganz unmöglich, Hosen zu tragen.“

„Kunst ist kein Abbild der realen Welt. Eine ist, bei Gott, mehr als genug.“

„Für jeden, der schreibt, ist es fatal, an sein Geschlecht zu denken. Es ist fatal, einfach ein Mann oder eine Frau zu sein. Es wäre besser, Frau-männlich oder Mann-weiblich zu sein.“

„Wenn Sie Dinge wie die Sterne betrachten, scheinen unsere Angelegenheiten nicht sehr wichtig zu sein, oder?“

„Wenn Menschen glücklich sind, haben sie eine Reserve, auf die sie zurückgreifen können, während sie wie ein Rad ohne Reifen war“

„Ich genieße den Frühling jetzt mehr als den Herbst. Man tut es, denke ich, wenn man älter wird.“

„Die Frau hat jahrhundertelang als Lupe gedient, welche die magische und köstliche Fähigkeit besaß, den Mann doppelt so groß zu zeigen, wie er von Natur aus ist.“

„Wenn ich groß bin, trage ich ein Heft - ein dickes Buch mit vielen Seiten, methodisch beschriftet. Ich werde meine Sätze eingeben.“

„Ihr Leben war ein Taschentuch der Eitelkeit und der Täuschung.“

„Warum sagt Samuel Butler: “Weise Männer sagen niemals, was sie über Frauen denken.“? Wie es scheint, sagen weise Männer nie etwas anderes.“

“Lord, how I praise God that I had a bent strong enough to coerce every minute of my life since I was born! This fiddling and drifting and not impressing oneself upon anything – this always refraining and fingering and cutting things up into little jokes and facetiousness – that's what's so annihilating. Yet given little money, little looks, no special gift – what can one do? How could one battle? How could one leap on the back of life and wring its scruff?”

“Once you begin to take yourself seriously as a leader or as a follower, as a modern or as a conservative, then you become a self-conscious, biting, and scratching little animal whose work is not of the slightest value or importance to anybody.”

“A whole lifetime was too short to bring out, the full flavour; to extract every ounce of pleasure, every shade of meaning.”

“She alone spoke the truth; to her alone could he speak it. That was the source of her everlasting attraction for him, perhaps; she was a person to whom one could say what came into one's head.”

“Theirs, too, is the word-coining genius, as if thought plunged into a sea of words and came up dripping.”

“I am amused at my relations with her: left so ardent in January – and now what? Also I like her presence and her beauty. Am I in love with her? But what is love? Her being 'in love' with me, excites and flatters; and interests. What is this 'love?”

“For I am more selves than Neville thinks. We are not simple as our friends would have us to meet their needs. Yet love is simple.”

“Words rose above the intolerably laden dumb oxen plodding through the mud. Words without meaning - wonderful words.”

“I have seen very few people. Nessa came again. How painful these meetings are! Let me try to analyse. Perhaps it is that we both feel that we can exist independently of the other. The door shuts between us, and life flows on again and completely removes the trace. That is an absurd exaggeration.”

“Old Madame du Deffand and her friends talked for fifty years without stopping. And of it all, what remains? Perhaps three witty sayings.”

“That great Cathedral space which was childhood.”

“That was the burden,' she mused, 'laid on me in the cradle; murmured by waves; breathed by restless elm trees; crooned by singing women; what we must rememeber; what we would forget.”

“If, then, one should try to sum up the character of women's fiction at the present moment, one would say that it is courageous; it is sincere; it keeps closely to what women feel. It is not bitter. It does not insist upon its femininity.”

“Very much screwed in the head by trying to get Roger's marriage chapter into shape; and also warmed by L. saying last night that he was fonder of me than I of him. A discussion as to which would mind the other's death most. He said he depended more upon our common life than I did. He gave the garden as an instance. He said I live more in a world of my own. I go for long walks alone. So we argued. I was very happy to think I was so much needed. Its strange how seldom one feels this: yet 'life in common' is an immense reality.”

“Humour is the first of the gifts to perish in a foreign tongue.”

“For ourselves, who are ordinary men and women, let us return thanks to Nature for her bounty by using every one of the senses she has given us; vary our state as much as possible; turn now this side, now that, to the warmth, and relish to the full before the sun goes down the kisses of youth and the echoes of a beautiful voice singing Catullus. Every season is likeable, and wet days and fine, red wine and white, company and solitude. Even sleep, that deplorable curtailment of the joy of life, can be full of dreams; and the most common actions—a walk, a talk, solitude in one’s own orchard—can be enhanced and lit up by the association of the mind. Beauty is everywhere, and beauty is only two finger’s-breadth from goodness.”

“But delightful though it is to indulge in righteous indignation, it is misplaced if we agree with the lady's-maid that high birth is a form of congenital insanity, that the sufferer merely inherits the diseases of his ancestors, and endures them, for the most part very stoically, in one of those comfortably padded lunatic asylums which are known, euphemistically, as the stately homes of England.”

“As for the soul: why did I say I would leave it out? I forget. And the truth is, one can't write directly about the soul. Looked at, it vanishes; but look at the ceiling, at Grizzle, at the cheaper beasts in the Zoo which are exposed to walkers in Regent's Pak, and the soul slips in. Mrs Webb's book has made me think a little what I could say of my own life. But then there were causes in her life: prayer; principle. None in mine. Great excitability and search after something. Great content – almost always enjoying what I'm at, but with constant change of mood. I don't think I'm ever bored. Yet I have some restless searcher in me. Why is there not a discovery in life? Something one can lay hands on and say 'This is it'? What is it? And shall I die before I can find it? Then (as I was walking through Russell Square last night) I see mountains in the sky: the great clouds, and the moon which is risen over Persia; I have a great and astonishing sense of something there, which is 'it' – A sense of my own strangeness, walking on the earth is there too. Who am I, what am I, and so on; these questions are always floating about in me. Is that what I meant to say? Not in the least. I was thinking about my own character; not about the universe. Oh and about society again; dining with Lord Berners at Clive's made me think that. How, at a certain moment, I see through what I'm saying; detest myself; and wish for the other side of the moon; reading alone, that is.”

“Even Morgan seems to me to be based on some hidden rock. Talking of Proust and Lawrence he said he'd prefer to be Lawrence; but much rather would be himself. He is aloof, serene, a snob, he says, reading masterpieces only.”

“They never pulled the curtains till it was too dark to see, nor shut the windows till it was too cold. Why shut out the day before it was over? The flowers were still bright; the birds chirped. You could see more in the evening often when nothing interrupted, when there was no fish to order, no telephone to answer.”

“The artist after all is a solitary being.”

“For it needs little skill in psychology to be sure that a highly gifted girl who had tried to use her gift for poetry would have been so thwarted and hindered by other people, so tortured and pulled asunder by her own contrary instincts, that she must have lost her health and sanity to a certainty.”

“Society is the most powerful conception in the world and society has no existence whatsoever.”

“What a born melancholiac I am! The only way I keep afloat is by working. Directly I stop working I feel that I am sinking down, down. And as usual, I feel that if I sink further I shall reach the truth. That is the only mitigation; a kind of nobility. Solemnity. Work, reading, writing, are all disguising; and relations with other people. Yes, even having children wold be useless.”

“We have been to Rodmell, and as usual I come home depressed – for no reason. Merely moods. Have other people as many as I have? That I shall never now. And sometimes I suppose that even if I came to the end of my incessant search into what people are and feel I should know nothing still.”

“He — for there could be no doubt of his sex, though the fashion of the time did something to disguise it — was in the act of slicing at the head of a Moor which swung from the rafters.”

“I mean, what is a woman? I assure you, I do not know. I do not believe that you know. I do not believe that anybody can know until she has expressed herself in all the arts and professions open to human skill.”

“"What is this romance?" she mused.
"Ah, that’s the question. I’ve never come across a definition that satisfied me, though there are some very good ones"—he glanced in the direction of his books.
"It’s not altogether knowing the other person, perhaps—it’s ignorance," she hazarded.
"Some authorities say it’s a question of distance—romance in literature, that is—"
"Possibly, in the case of art. But in the case of people it may be—" she hesitated.”

“I told you in the course of this paper that Shakespeare had a sister; but do not look for her in Sir Sidney Lee's life of the poet. She died young — alas, she never wrote a word… Now my belief is that this poet who never wrote a word and was buried at the cross-roads still lives. She lives in you and in me, and in many other women who are not here to-night, for they are washing up the dishes and putting the children to bed. But she lives; for great poets do not die; they are continuing presences; they need only the opportunity to walk among us in the flesh.”