„The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget.“

Dedication to La Saisiaz.
Bartlett's Familiar Quotations, 10th ed. (1919)

"Personal Conduct" http://books.google.com/books?id=IYOcAQAAQBAJ&q=%22The+stupid+neither+forgive+nor+forget+the+na%C3%AFve+forgive+and+forget+the+wise+forgive+but+do+not+forget%22&pg=PA177#v=onepage, p. 51. http://openlibrary.org/works/OL15151528W/The_Second_Sin
The Second Sin (1973)

1950s, Loving Your Enemies (Christmas 1957)
Kontext: Forgiveness does not mean ignoring what has been done or putting a false label on an evil act. It means, rather, that the evil act no longer remains as a barrier to the relationship. Forgiveness is a catalyst creating the atmosphere necessary for a fresh start and a new beginning. It is the lifting of a burden or the canceling of a debt. The words "I will forgive you, but never forget what you have done" never explain the real nature of forgiveness. Certainly one can never forget, if that means erasing totally for his mind. But when we forgive, we forget in the sense that the evil deed is no longer a mental block impeding a new relationship. Likewise, we can never say, "I will forgive you, but I won't have anything further to do with you." Forgiveness means reconciliation, a coming together again. Without this, no man can ever love his enemies. The degree to which we are able to forgive determines the degree to which we are able to love our enemies.

Al Khisaal. vol.1, p. 112

Quelle: Notorious

Quelle: My Double Life (1907), Ch. 33 <!-- p. 369 -->
Kontext: Life is short, even for those who live a long time, and we must live for the few who know and appreciate us, who judge and absolve us, and for whom we have the same affection and indulgence. The rest I look upon as a mere crowd, lively or sad, loyal or corrupt, from whom there is nothing to be expected but fleeting emotions, either pleasant or unpleasant, which leave no trace behind them. We ought to hate very rarely, as it is too fatiguing; remain indifferent to a great deal, forgive often and never forget.

Quelle: I Hunt Killers

"An Essay on the Noble Science of Self-Justification"; Tales and Novels, vol. 1, p. 213.

Thom Merrilin
(15 October 1991)

Nahj al-Balagha, Letter 53: An order to Malik Al-Ashtar
Variante: The best deed of a great man is to forgive and forget.

Mixtapes, Fahrenheit 1/15 Part I: The Truth Is Among Us (2006)

Quelle: The White Queen