„That is why individuals and peoples need a “healing of memories”. This does not mean that they have to forget past events. Rather, they have to learn to look at them in a new way. Instead of remaining prisoners of the past, they have to recover their freedom to forgive. As the pope says: “The deadly cycle of revenge must be replaced by the new-found liberty of forgiveness.”“
Kunnumpuram, K. (ed) (2007) World Peace: An Impossible Dream? , Mumbai: St Pauls
On Peace
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— Jair Bolsonaro Brazilian president elect 1955
About the Holocaust, at a meeting with evangelical pastors in Rio de Janeiro, on 11 April 2019. Bolsonaro: Brazil will vote ‘in line’ with Israel, US at UN Human Rights Council https://www.timesofisrael.com/bolsonaro-brazil-will-vote-in-line-with-israel-us-at-un-human-rights-council/. The Times of Israel (14 April 2019).

— Martin Luther King, Jr. American clergyman, activist, and leader in the American Civil Rights Movement 1929 - 1968
1950s, Loving Your Enemies (Christmas 1957)
Kontext: Forgiveness does not mean ignoring what has been done or putting a false label on an evil act. It means, rather, that the evil act no longer remains as a barrier to the relationship. Forgiveness is a catalyst creating the atmosphere necessary for a fresh start and a new beginning. It is the lifting of a burden or the canceling of a debt. The words "I will forgive you, but never forget what you have done" never explain the real nature of forgiveness. Certainly one can never forget, if that means erasing totally for his mind. But when we forgive, we forget in the sense that the evil deed is no longer a mental block impeding a new relationship. Likewise, we can never say, "I will forgive you, but I won't have anything further to do with you." Forgiveness means reconciliation, a coming together again. Without this, no man can ever love his enemies. The degree to which we are able to forgive determines the degree to which we are able to love our enemies.
„Forgiveness is giving up all hope of having had a better past.“
— Anne Lamott Novelist, essayist, memoirist, activist 1954
Variante: Who was it who said that forgiveness is giving up all hope of having had a different past?
Quelle: Traveling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith

„Forgiveness is too easy. I can forget by indifference, but not forgive. I prefer revenge.“
— Karl Lagerfeld German fashion designer 1933 - 2019
— Robertson Davies, buch The Diary of Samuel Marchbanks
The Diary of Samuel Marchbanks (1947)

„Forgiveness is giving up the hope that the past could have been any different.“
— Oprah Winfrey American businesswoman, talk show host, actress, producer, and philanthropist 1954

„Scots have long memories, and they're not the most forgiving of people.“
— Diana Gabaldon, buch Dragonfly in Amber
Quelle: Dragonfly in Amber

— Boris Yeltsin 1st President of Russia and Chairman of the Supreme Soviet of the RSFSR 1931 - 2007
Interview on Zerkalo http://web.archive.org/web/20021117080050/http://www.cdi.org/russia/johnson/6011-5.cfm (RTR) (29 December 2001)
2000s
Kontext: It looks as if some people either have a short memory and are forgetting about that time and the events that occurred then … Let us recall the putsch of August 19, 1991. It was after the putsch that the republics began, one after another, to declare their independence.
Russia also declared its independence. This was approved by the Supreme Soviet, and you know and remember that there was the Declaration on the Independence of Russia. So, the entire course of history was leading to a point when the regime, the political regime in the country had to be changed. It demonstrated that the Union was not as strong as this was loudly preached by mass media and the propaganda in general. The republics wished to become independent. This must only be welcomed... We have good peaceful relations and there were no military clashes. None of these countries had revolutions with bloody casualties and there was no civil war in any of the republics... Russia had to change and it did change.

— Jane Roberts American Writer 1929 - 1984
Quelle: The Nature of Personal Reality (1974), p. 355: session 654: April 9, 1973
— Alice Miller Swiss psychologist 1923 - 2010
Breaking Down the Wall of Silence (Abbruch der Schweigemauer) (1990)

„Forgiveness means giving up all hope for a better past.“
— Lily Tomlin American actress, comedian, writer, and producer 1939

— Sidney Poitier, buch The Measure of a Man: A Spiritual Autobiography
Quelle: The Measure of a Man: A Spiritual Autobiography

— Edward Bellamy American author and socialist 1850 - 1898
Quelle: Dr. Heidenhoff's Process http://www.gutenberg.org/files/7052/7052-h/7052-h.htm (1880), Ch. 1.

— James Martin (author) British information technology consultant and writer 1933 - 2013
James Martin (1978) The wired society. p. 3