„Giving generously in romantic relationships, and in all other bonds, means recognizing when the other person needs our attention. Attention is an important resource.“

—  bell hooks, buch All About Love: New Visions

Quelle: All About Love: New Visions

Letzte Aktualisierung 3. Juni 2021. Geschichte
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bell hooks
afroamerikanische Literaturwissenschaftlerin und Feministin 1952

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„The foreseeing of our attention is the will to give attention, is voluntary attention.“

—  Hermann Ebbinghaus German psychologist 1850 - 1909

Quelle: Psychology: An elementary textbook, 1908, p. 91

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„To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.“

—  Bell Hooks, buch All About Love: New Visions

Quelle: All About Love: New Visions

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„When you give complete attention there is no recording. It is only when there is not attention, inattention, you record.“

—  Jiddu Krishnamurti Indian spiritual philosopher 1895 - 1986

2nd Question and Answer Session, Saanen (24 July 1980) http://www.jkrishnamurti.org/krishnamurti-teachings/view-text.php?tid=1395&chid=1092&w=, J.Krishnamurti Online, JKO Serial No. SA80Q2
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Kontext: And the brain has been trained to record because then in that recording there is safety, there is security, there is strength, a vitality, and therefore in that recording the mind creates the image about oneself. Right? And that image will constantly get hurt. So is it possible to live without a single image? Go into it, sir. Don't please go to sleep. Single image about yourself, about your husband, wife, children, friend and so on, about the politicians, about the priests, about the ideals, not a single shadow of an image? We are saying it is possible, must be, otherwise you will always be getting hurt, always living in a pattern. In that there is no freedom. And when you call me an idiot, to be so attentive at that moment. Right? When you give complete attention there is no recording. It is only when there is not attention, inattention, you record. I wonder if you capture this. Is it getting too difficult? Too abstract? That is, you flatter me. I like it. The liking at that moment is inattention. In that moment there is no attention. Therefore recording takes place. But when you flatter me, instead of calling me an idiot, now you have gone to the other extreme, flatter me, to listen to it so completely, without any reaction, then there is no centre which records.

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„When a girl marries, she exchanges the attentions of all the other men of her acquaintance for the inattention of just one.“

—  Helen Rowland American journalist 1875 - 1950

Reflections of a Bachelor Girl, p. 5 (1903)
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„We all tend to be greedy end-gainers, paying no attention to our means whereby.“

—  F. Matthias Alexander Australian actor 1869 - 1955

Quoted in The Art of Seeing by Aldous Huxley (1942), p. 88

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„Attention, attention must be finally paid to such a person.“

—  Arthur Miller, Death of a Salesman

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Kontext: I don't say he's a great man. Willy Loman never made a lot of money. His name was never in the paper. He's not the finest character that ever lived. But he's a human being, and a terrible thing is happening to him. So attention must be paid. He's not to be allowed to fall into his grave like an old dog. Attention, attention must be finally paid to such a person.

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